Staying centered on your path of choice, feels more challenging some days. Replay your self-talk to a friend who encourages you to see the the bigger picture. Based on their knowing of you and your goals, transforms simple unproductive venting into validating what you've learned and why you are motivated to stay the way.
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I took a step back from my early morning discouragement to ask myself why it occurs. If I could better understand what brought discouragement about, I could better manage my emotions and enjoy the daily tasks on my chosen road.
Immediately, this thought popped up: Discouragement occurs when your connection to an expectation is severed. The cutting of your ties to a known or unconscious expectation may be caused by life, others or your own thoughts. Both the bad and the good news is the same: You only have control over your own thinking. I changed my thoughts this morning and engaged with my ongoing commitment with renewed enthusiasm. It's a sign!:
In maneuvering our way down the windy path of parenting, some of us are always on the look out for a sign that we are making wise decisions. I was reminded about signs yesterday, and our interpretation of them. My thumbs up icon was sticking in an online contest at Get Paid University. Was it a metaphor? Was I stuck? Had I stretched myself far enough into the world and needed to stop? I paused those thoughts. I admit it took me more than the prescribed 6 seconds. With renewed energy, having talked back to those negative thoughts, I considered what else I could do to gather more votes. With that question in mind, I took my newly present self for a walk. Going down the steps of my office building, a young man called out the name on my shirt. In this oh so small world, we found out that his younger siblings had attended the preschool where I teach peace education. We chatted for awhile and then he disclosed that he had an office in the building and was an internet marketer. Needless to say, he did give me the next step. He answered my question. In the future when I'm looking for a sign. I'll remember to be sure it's a clear and accurate one, based on what I intend, and not one painted by those old negative voices. Those of you who have chosen or been chosen for the mission of parenting children are very aware of the commitment it takes to stay the way with dignity, responsibility and enjoyment. Vulnerable as we are as parents, we find ourselves reflecting on and judging ourselves on 'how we're doing." The treacherous practice of comparing ourselves both to others and to our own unrealistic expectations can derail us from a solid path and discourage us. Thus distracted, our enthusiasm for parenting and enjoyment of our children diminish.
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I took a Beauty Breath today. Stopping on a steep San Francisco street, a vivid green hillside apeared through the fog. I deeply inhaled its beauty and exhaled the crowded, crazy bus ride home on the 31 Balboa. I took six more Beauty Breaths and arrived home from my walk renewed.
Not from website to article because in the eyes of google it looks like a mutual link.So I took the link off this post. I'll create a page instead.
I'm struggling with my joy in writing and sharing my process in online articles and the fact that "no one reads them and their only purpose is for page rank and page reputation." I know it's apples and oranges. One is about traffic, the other the heart. But what I feel is that I'm writing on velvet. Time for some meditation,self-talk and coaching From a friend's email, John ODonohue's poem:
When the heart is ready for a fresh beginning, unforeseen things can emerge. Beginnings are an opening for surprises and bring exciting possibilities. Beginnings have minds of their own. They invite new gifts and arrivals into one's life, that want to be seen." Staying committed to a long term project such as parenting or getting paid for who you are requires building endurance. You don't have the luxury of allowing your emotions to derail you from the next required task. There are days when I find it hard to give up indulging the emotions that surface as I absorb new information to far beyond the saturation point. And now I'm being encouraged to apply it!
Staying committed to a long term project such as parenting or getting paid for who you are requires building endurance. You don't have the luxury of allowing your emotions to derail you from the next required task. There are days when I find it hard to give up indulging the emotions that surface as I absorb new information to far beyond the saturation point. And now I'm being encouraged to apply it!
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