How am I doing? How are you doing?

Those of you who have chosen or been chosen for the mission of parenting children are very aware of the commitment it takes to stay the way with dignity, responsibility and enjoyment. Vulnerable as we are as parents, we find ourselves reflecting on and judging ourselves on 'how we're doing." The treacherous practice of comparing ourselves both to others and to our own unrealistic expectations can derail us from a solid path and discourage us. Thus distracted, our enthusiasm for parenting and enjoyment of our children diminish.